Two religions, one family, and a court approval
Fourteen-year-old Akbar’s appeal to the judge to
let him remain with his Hindu guardian instead of transferring him to his
Muslim mother has shot Aiku Lal Sandil to national headlines. However, for the
tea vendor from Baradari, Lucknow, taking in Akbar wasn’t something he thought
twice about. Having been raised by a Muslim man himself, Sandil couldn’t just
look away when he found the six-year-old lost boy in a Lucknow park eight years
ago.
“I am a Hindu
brought up by a kind Muslim man. When I found Akbar, it was like God telling me
that it is time to return the love and care I got from His people. I was never
forced to change my religion and, having got that education from my guardian,
it was my duty to take care of the child and bring him up as per his own
religion,” Sandil says.
The bond the two
share was acknowledged by the Allahabad High Court in January 2008 when it
turned down Akbar’s biological mother Shahnaz Begum’s habeas corpus petition.
Shahnaz had argued that since Akbar was a Muslim, if Sandil raised him, it
would “create dichotomy and disharmony in the social sphere and in their
relationship”.
Dismissing her
petition, after Akbar said he wanted to live with Sandil rather than his
parents, Justice Barkat Ali Zaidi said India is a secular country where the
consideration of caste and creed should not be allowed to prevail. “...If there
can be inter-caste marriages... there can also be an inter-caste ‘father and
son’ relationship and that need not raise eyebrows,” the judge said.
Shahnaz has now
moved the Supreme Court, and last week it asked her to file an affidavit on her
monthly income, the property she owns and the school where her other two
children study.
What the high court
found strange was that Shahnaz approached it in 2007, four years after Akbar
went missing, and that she had not even filed an FIR in the intervening period.
Akbar’s parents
first stepped forward to claim their son after they saw Sandil on TV,
recounting his story to mediapersons at a political party’s office in
Qaiserbagh where he briefly worked. “They came to me... I did not know them.
Later on, the district administration decided that since they had not lodged
any FIR, Akbar would live with me,” says Sandil. Later, the parents moved the
high court.
A six-year-old at
the time he got lost, Akbar had gone to a liquor shop with his father in
Allahabad, where they lived. While the father was busy buying liquor, he
strayed away and somehow landed up in Lucknow.
It was Sandil’s
neighbour Kushmavati Devi who first noticed Akbar on a cold winter evening in
2003, playing with her children in a park next to Baradari. “As the children
returned home, he started crying. He said his name was Akbar and that his
father had gone to bring food and also that he lived in Pan Dariba. Sandil was
also here and I handed over Akbar to him,” remembers Kushmavati.
With five children
of her own, Kushmavati has been a foster parent to the boy. It’s at her house
that he drops in for most meals.
Sandil says when he
found Akbar, he had liver problems, weak limbs and an infected foot which made
it difficult for him to walk. “I took him to doctors; I also massaged his limbs
with medicated ointments. Once he broke his hand and I carried him as far as
Etaunja to get treatment,” say Kushmavati.
Sandil recounts how
he himself was brought up by Chaudhary Mujtaba Hussain, who was a member of a
governing body that looked after the well-known Baradari moument. “I have seen
Aiku living with my father ever since I was a child,” says Chaudhary Hasan
Imam, Hussain’s son.
Hussain taught
Sandil how to read and write English, Hindi and Urdu, though he never went to
school. Despite his meagre income, Sandil has ensure that doesn’t happen to
Akbar. “Initially, Akbar was enrolled in Prathamic Vidhyalaya, Qaiser Bagh,
Refugee Camp, and two years later, he was enrolled in Queens Inter College.
Recently, I shifted him to Mumtaz Inter College, Aminabad, where the classes
are more regular,” says Sandil. He also pays Rs 100 a month for a daily,
one-hour tuition in a nearby area.
“My income is not
much but I am doing all I can to educate Akbar. I hardly save Rs 500 per
month,” says Sandil.
Every Friday,
Sandil also ensures, Akbar goes to the masjid to offer namaaz. “Abhi namaaz
yaad to nahin hai par main jumme ke jumme masjid jata zaroor hoon (Though I do
not remember the prayers as of now, I definitely go to the masjid every
Friday),” says Akbar.
If the Supreme
Court directs that Akbar be given to his parents, Sandil says, he will abide.
“But if it is against the will of Akbar, I will not leave the child crying with
his mother.”
Source: http://www.indianexpress.com/news/aiku-&-akbar-two-religions-one-family-and-a-court-approval/831716/0